Will the treatment be worse than the disease?
The question she is likely pondering is whether the treatments will provide more benefit than harm. And, given the anticipated progression of the disease, would she be wiser to make the most of her current pain-free life than experience the side effects of cancer treatment?
The American Cancer Society says that the five-year survival rate for bone cancer is 70 percent when you combine children and adults. Certain cancers tend to grow more slowly in the elderly, but bone cancer is not one of them.
While Rae did not say what type or stage cancer she has, the most common bone cancer in adults is chondrosarcoma, which has a five-year relative survival of about 80 percent. (A relative survival rate assumes that some people will die of other causes and compares the survival of people with cancer with that of people without the cancer.)
What’s more, cancer treatments improve considerably every five years, so many newly diagnosed patients may have a more favorable outcome than the survival rate implies.
Being treated for cancer as an older person also presents some heightened risks. Treatment could leave an older person dizzy and thus more prone to falls. Bones are more fragile and break more easily in the elderly. An older person undergoing cancer treatments might lose some independence and need assistance with the activities of daily living. And if other health issues are present, the cancer medications might interact with other drugs being taken.
Rae has faced her fair share of adversity. In her 2015 memoir, The Facts of My Life, she chronicled how she maintained nearly 44 years of sobriety, how she discovered her loving husband, John Strauss, was cheating on her with men, and how she coped with the death of her son, who had autism and dementia.
As she counsels in her book, “I want to tell everybody to celebrate every day, to savor the day and be good to yourself, love yourself, and then you can be good to others and be of service to others.”